Or maybe I'm supposed to be aloof until we are dating/committed- at which point I'll start getting in trouble for being too aloof.It's a shame that the movie The Short Night never materialized. Shouldn't it be as simple as trying to spend time with someone you like, showing that you're available for them because they are special? I've been burned too many times doing this-perhaps it's boring because I'm "too easy". It's immature to employ these games, but it's also immature for men and women to be attracted to aloof people. It makes it look like I've got more going on.
Who doesn't want to try to solve that riddle?ħ Bedtime Habits That Are Ruining Your SleepĪfter she's blown enough chances, I move on. The occasional deep/tortured thought makes me look so distant and emotionally unavailable. Sharing Occasional Deep Thoughts - AKA The Starving Artist If you use this tactic, remember not to leave a Facebook status trail saying that you're actually staying in and watching bad movies. Sometimes when I text a girl that I can't meet her because of "cool social engagement A, B, or C," I'm doing so lying in bed in boxers watching Lifeteime movies before passing out. I guess putting all that stuff down makes me look too cool for school. I am always telling women how much I hate Lady Gaga when they trump her up, and I once told a girl she'd "never make it in New York," while she was bragging about her plans. It's especially magnetic if you can keep the crowd laughing and nodding in agreement, like a politician on the campaign trail.ĭue to the fact that women like jerks, when I put down something she thinks is really cool, I have success. Your person of interest will want to be part of the circle. Holding court the middle of an impenetrable circle of cool, attractive people is intimidating, but effective. Walking in to a party and talking to everyone but her, not going right over to her right away, keeps her in check and makes it look like I've got a lot going on. You don't have to be that obnoxious, but making the person long for your attention by makes it that much better for them when you actually give them that attention later on (once you've decided the punishment has gone long enough). This one is quite immature and can be downright mean, but sometimes you just have to do it. Not only does it create a riddle for the other person to solve, but giving little tastes of good vibes, mixed with a confusing vibe intrigues people. Sending mixed signals is a timeless tactic employed by both genders. The next minute, I'll be a little distant. One moment, I'll be affectionate, totally paying attention to you. Here are some aloofness tactics I've tried: My main weakness is my tendency to wear my heart on my sleeve and remain honest with my affection and intentions. The person might wonder, just who is Rich Santos (even though it's clear I'm just a dumb guy who likes the Ravens, Ramen, and chicken tenders.and sleep). In addition to creating "a chase," aloofness creates mystery. I can't seem to get the mix right: I'm either not aloof enough or (when I try to be aloof) I look uninterested. It is this aloofness that I strive to master. I'm attracted to women that are gloriously unavailable. How (and why) should I act like I don't care about someone that I'm interested in? The most frustrating girl advice is: "act like you don't care."
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